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Book Discussion Dec. 1, 2018 An American Marriage by Tayari Jones


An American Marriage by Tayari Jones has been getting great reviews all year long. There’s even a rumor that it’s going to be made into a movie!

The author indicated that she wanted to write a book underscoring the problems of an unfair justice system and mass incarceration, but she wanted to do it from the point of view of a story. The story she created describes what happens in the marriage of Celestial and Roy, when Roy is unjustly convicted of a crime and sentenced to prison.  Celestial and Roy are well-educated and modernly upwardly mobile.  Although the couple’s home is in Atlanta, they have traveled to a small town in Louisiana to visit Roy’s parents. It’s here, at the one-star hotel (the only hotel in town,) where their troubles begin. 

It just so happens that a prison in Louisiana is featured last book we discussed, Sing Unburied Sing by Jesmyn Ward. In Sing Unburied Sing the prison is the infamous Parchman Prison Farm. The characters are rural and poor, whereas in An American Marriage, Roy and Celestial’s parents may have struggled in their early years, Celestial’s parents are now wealthy and Roy’s parents seem to be doing well.  

Tayari Jones said she wanted to write a book that although features the male as the main character; she wants the female character to be multi-dimensional.  Even though it’s Roy who goes to prison, the situation becomes a prison for Celestial as well. In The Atlantic article quoted below Jones credits Toni Morrison for showing how a novel about a male, in this case Song of Solomon, can force that male to see the female characters, to discover empathy for the female characters so that they can be  released from their roles as invisible servants to the male. Amazingly, the author received sharp criticism for not portraying Celestial as standing by her man.





Writing a Feminist Novel with a Man's Point of View by Joe Fassler Mar. 2018

The author Tayari Jones explains what Toni Morrison’s Song of Solomon taught her about the centrality of male protagonists in stories that explore female suffering.
As I wrote An American Marriage, I was frustrated because I did not want to make Roy, my male character, so central. The first time, I wrote it all the way through from the point of view of Celestial, his wife. I was interested in the expectations of femininity and domesticity, the way that a black woman whose husband is wrongfully incarcerated—this archetypal racial problem—would behave. What is her role in supporting him? What does it mean to be a wife? I knew that would necessarily mean that, for Celestial, any decision other than organizing her life around his comfort would be considered treasonous.
As I wrote, sometimes even speaking about this topic seemed treasonous. At a party, I ran into a black man who’s a friend of mine, and he asked me what I was working on. I told him I was writing a novel about a woman whose husband is wrongfully incarcerated. He said, “Oh, it’s about how she’s fighting to get him out.” I said, “It’s about a lot of things. And she doesn’t actually ‘wait’ for him in the traditional sense.” He jerked away from me. Just even imagining Roy’s story as anything other than the center caused him to physically recoil.”

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In spite of what the author explained in the above article, I still had the feeling that Celestial was immature and not fully committed. Could it be that I have been so brainwashed by systemic patriarchy that even as a woman, I’m not really on Celestial’s side? In Celestial’s defense though, I have to say that she did find another woman’s phone number in his pocket. They’re both pretty immature.
One thing I wanted to say about the title, and I mentioned this to a fellow reader, is that that I thought An American Marriage applied to Big Roy and Olive’s marriage, a marriage that is an example of what marriage ought to be. I see now that the title refers to this uniquely American system in which an African American husband can be unjustly snatched from his wife, regardless of guilt or innocence. I understood completely how Celestial was unable to speak plainly in front of the jury and how these small town southern members of the jury resented her pronunciation and vocabulary.
p.39 “Uncle Banks, coaching me, said, Now is not the time to be articulate. Now is the time to give it up. No filter, all heart. No matter what you’re asked, what you want the jury to see is why you married him.  I tried, but I didn’t know how to be anything other than “well-spoken” in front of strangers….As I took my seat beside Andre, not even the black lady juror would look at me.”





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